I’m sure no one has notices or cares, but I’ve missed a few days and am failing my “post every day of June” goal. It seems I have to choose between writing a post, doing housework, and getting sleep. I don’t mind getting behind on housework, but sleep has GOT to win. The baby has long stretches of sleep beginning at 7 or 8 at night. If I don’t get to bed by 9:30 or 10:00 and catch the first wave, I’m kind of screwed. After 3 am, it gets sketchy. But hey, he slept from 8:30 PM to 3:30 PM straight last night….AND I got to bed at 9:30. Sweet.
You know who else is sweet? Ms. Mary, aka Miz SShe sent Rachel and Hannah the sweetest letter accompanied by two great book and an awesome CD of children’s music. Thank you, Mary. I have an impulse to call you like I sometimes do (calling Mary seems to be the trend) but then I remembered that I’m a dork on the phone and I got shy. The girls have been carrying around the books all weekend. We were at a wedding yesterday, and had a loooooooooong dinner with no where for kids to run around, and are kids were amazingly well behaved, partly because Rachel was busy reading one of the books Mary gave her. Hannah sat for the first 20 minutes pretending to read the other book. She want to read so badly. She’s starting to be able to read words slowly, but is not a real reader. When she overheard us telling the other people at the table that she wasn’t actually reading the chapter book, she blushed behind the book and muttered, “I’m reading it in my head,” which meant, I think, that she was imagining what the words were saying. I think she’ll be reading “Dick and Jane” by the end of the summer, she wants to so badly. When Rachel was on the verge of reading, I got fed up with the “Easy Reader” books that you find in the bookstores because they are so poorly thought out, that I ordered a bunch of Dick and Jane books because they use easy words, have very few words per page, and repeat them over and over. They worked really well.
Anyway, where was i? Yes, making choices and my new commitment to sleep.
On that note, I must be off. However, I will leave you with some of my random thoughts/happenings.
- How come whenever I try to burp the baby, I burp?
- Don’t see Kung Fu Panda. Just don’t.
- Do go see a “mommy” movie with your newborn while the girls are in school. I haven’t been able to do that since Rachel was a baby and it is a real luxury. It’s also a bonus for the baby, lots of eating and snuggling and no distractions and reasons for mom to put him down.
- If you happen to see Sex and the City and your daughter asks you what you saw, lie. Tell her you saw “Clothes in the City” or something like that, unless you want to have to give an impromptu explanation of the word sex.
- Rachel did ask me how babies were made a couple of months back. I was driving with Hannah in the car. I told her I’d tell her later. That night I ordered some children’s books about the subject, for various ages. I keep wanting to sit her down and answer her question, but she hasn’t asked again. I really should make time. I’m pretty sure I learned about sex from other kids my age at a pretty early age. When I was in 5th or 6th grade, my Dad asked if I was taking sex ed in school, seemed satisfied that I was and that was pretty much the extent of what I learned from my parents. This explains my awkardness now. That and the fact that I don’t really want her to grow up THAT much…..ever….. Well, that last sentence was a bit of a lie but you hear me, don’t you?
- Why did CNN spend two hours with a camera on Hillary Clinton’s garage on Saturday morning without once giving the news, and then when i got back a half hour later, after her speech was done did not replay the speech?
- Why do people who find out I had two girls and then a boy assume we were trying for a boy?
- Boys like babies. You wouldn’t believe how many boys have asked to see the baby and then look at him in awe.
That’s all I’ve got. I’m starting to yawn and baby is sleeping on my lap. I’m calling it a night.
Night.






I don’t blame you on the sleep. WAY more important! I love books and reading–and both my girls do too. Alison only learned to enjoy reading in high school, which is weird but delightful.
June 8th, 2008 at 8:57 pmYou know, I never did the mommy movie thing. I wish I had, now it definitely won’t work. You missed an awesome speech, one of the best I’ve ever seen her give, and I’m not a Clinton supporter. This was the “good queen” speech. Try to see it on youtube.
June 8th, 2008 at 9:24 pmThanks for the heads up on Kung Fu Panda — my husband said no way but I was wavering. Oh, and the question about the two girls and a boy . . . those are the same people who, upon learning that child #2 was a boy, told me, “Oh, good! Your family is complete.” Good to know — if child #2 had been a girl, they would have figured my family was INCOMPLETE. I bet my younger sister (and only sibling) finds that a trifle offensive. People can be really dumb. It’s sad. Diatribe over! Enjoy your finally complete family!
June 8th, 2008 at 10:14 pmI’m glad they like the books. I know Hannah is really too young for them, but they will be fun for you to read to her if you have time. One day I will tell all about those books and how special they were to my family.
June 9th, 2008 at 12:38 pm“I’m reading it in my head.”
What a great kid she is!!! Tell her I am very impressed.
June 9th, 2008 at 2:16 pmHannah brought one of Mary’s books to school today. It was so cute. She covets it.
June 9th, 2008 at 2:20 pmOh, I forgot to say: people used to ask Josh all the time if he were disappointed because we have 2 girls and no boy. I think that’s really annoying. Any child is a blessing and a joy, and to fuss about the sex of a baby (or place too much importance on it) is just silly.
June 9th, 2008 at 6:06 pmPeople always make comments about us having 2 boys, and are we going to try for a girl… I always say our dog is our girl. I don’t know why it is so common for people to think you need to have both genders, when really, they’re all gifts.
June 9th, 2008 at 8:44 pmMy husband says people say “so you finally got your boy” to him all the time and it drives him crazy.
June 9th, 2008 at 10:29 pmHannah is awesome. You need to make a book of Hannah quotes and give them to her when she graduates from high school. It will be a real treasure!
Boys do like babies. Zed is the sweetest cousin to my niece. She’s five now, but he’s always taken good care of her. And fortunately, my sister took Elle to Kung Fu Panda, so I’ll be spared.
June 11th, 2008 at 7:22 am