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Oooooh, I am exhausted.

A little girl turned five this week and there was much organizing of Pirate decorations and accessories, as well as buying of presents and distributing of invitations (for a party which thankfully was NOT this week) and Halloween costume finalizing and Mommy (my mommy) hosting and chocolate-chip cookie baking for the annual school Halloween festival.

(Deep Breath)

And then there was the menstrual cycling, or at least the appearance of symptoms signaling that my body might be trying to work up to the menstral cycling now that the baby is solidly on solids.

And then there was the hitting of the wall and the asking of my husband to fulfill my volunteer hour at a church Halloween festival that we were too tired to attend. He said yes without batting an eye. Have I mentioned that he is a good man? Yes?

There was also the stealing of the kisses from the baby and the producing of belly laughs from the baby by the five-year old who is now deeply on board with big sisterhood. Do we have the best-natured baby in the whole world? Possibly. (knocking on wood)

Did I mention the mild disappointment from this mother when her five-year old was too self-conscious to wear her pirate hat and eye patch at the Halloween festival and later, the mild sadness when after a discussion with the five-year old this same mother discovered that seeing all the other girly costumes at the festival had made the five-year old a bit embarassed about her love of pirates. (For anyone concerned we have tons of girly costumes for her to wear if she decides to abandon the pirate costume before Halloween).

And then there was the seven year old who was struggling to recover from a sinus thing and her mother who as usual spent much time wondering how to find time alone with this same seven year old who seems to be needing a little extra attention lately.

There is more to say, but obviously I can only talk in run-on sentences, so I will be back later.

Sunday, October 26th, 2008

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  1. Margaret said:

    It sounds like this mother needs some deep breaths and some relaxation. But all of this is normal–just exhausting. I still remember when Older Daughter and I spent lots of time and money getting together clothes to make an American Girl costume for Halloween.(one of the characters from the books) And no one even knew who she was! She was so disappointed.

  2. TravelinOma said:

    I remember trying to talk my 3rd grade son out of being a girl for Halloween. He came home from school with new-found respect for my wisdom. That night he was Dracula.

  3. Raehan said:

    Hannah wore a bride costume to church today, but part of me hopes she can wear her pirate costume proudly on Halloween so she has a sense of completion.

  4. Angie said:

    I am so behind this year. I don’t even have a plan for the costumes yet. You are far far ahead of me!

  5. Miz S said:

    Oh dear. The pirate costume story made me mildly sad, too.

  6. Judy said:

    I’m with Miz S - I was rightly proud of that pirate choice there, and then to hear that the self-consciousness kicked in, well, that was a little sad.

  7. better safe than sorry said:

    this is the first year i don’t have anyone going out, but they plan on dressing up a bit to shell out instead.
    it’s really hard having three kids, finding time to give each of them individually. it will get easier as the baby gets just a bit older. i can remember when i had my last one, feeling like i was completely ignoring my middle child, who was only three, but we did finally settle into a routine where everyone, including mom, felt happy.

  8. Liza Lee Miller said:

    Having a daughter who is out of step with her peers is difficult but very rewarding, as well. Your life sound crazily wonderful! Hang in there.

  9. bonnie said:

    Celebrating the Reformation is less taxing and more edifying, by the way. Melt into the Dresden Amen of the first movement of Mendelssohn’s 5th Symphony. Opus 107, “Reformation”!

    Don’t forget to exhale!

    xoxo

  10. kenju said:

    You need a vacation and so does your 7-year-old.

    I am glad to know that the baby is good. What a blessing!

  11. Raehan said:

    The ironic thing about Hannah is that she is so well-loved by her classmates that she could have worn a paper bag and it would have been a hit.

  12. Gail said:

    Is she going to be Anne Bonny, or perhaps Mary Read? There are some wonderful female pirates, if pirates can be called wonderful. ;~) Hope they both have fun no matter what they choose to be.

  13. Old Horsetail Snake said:

    Well here am I, still trying to find out if Triscuits are healthy. I seem to be running a touch behind.

  14. Raehan said:

    Bonnie, The idea of celebrating the Reformation is enticing (I was once-for a short time-a Reformation scholar). However, we’re a family with Catholic and Jewish roots, so it doesn’t quite honor our heritage.

    Oh well.

    I’d actually be quite happy to abandon Halloween, but that’s cause I’m no fun anymore. : )

  15. Sis said:

    I hope Hannah is coming back to piratedom for the big night! Jeremy is going to be a doctor. We got his costume together yesterday and he was SOOOOOOO excited — he had to wear it all evening and through dinner and even lobbied to wear it in the bath. Then he wanted it on again first thing in the morning. I don’t think he gets the trick or treat thing, but it should be fun. It’s a nice distraction from the election stress in any case.

  16. Kyla said:

    I think you need a nap!

  17. Jean-Luc Picard said:

    Hopefully your daughter will grow up to dress like a pirate all the time.

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